"If you don't like something, change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it." ~Mary Engelbreit Change. It's something that I'm not always comfortable with, if I'm to be perfectly honest. Now, let me say up front, I'm NOT one of those folks that is vehemently opposed to change. (You know the ones....."We've always done it this way!"...... "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!" Blah! Those folks bring me down big time!) I DO know that change is inevitable in life. However, the closer change happens to me, personally, the harder it is to shift gears and just accept it without a bit of an internal .......what's the word?......"struggle?"....... "fight?"....... maybe it's "meltdown." Anyway, bottom line......change is here, up close and very personal, in my life right now. Change is happening at home. Change is happening in my extended family circumstances. Change is happening in my church. Change is definitely happening at my workplace. "Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it." ~Kahlil Gibran Here's the best news of all about change for me. (Well, I think it's good news....others may have a different opinion about this.) I, too, am changing! Yep. It's true! See, here's the thing. Those that know me well enough know that I can handle change....as long as I can control the circumstances. Hello! My name is Dot, and I'm a control freak. There. I said it. I have an innate NEED to control things (and yes, I'll admit it, people too!). Frankly, it's a trait that I've viewed as a curse from time to time throughout my life. I want ......no I NEED to fix things. Things need to run smoothly in life, and in my little mind, I think I'm the only one who can make that happen, not only for myself, but also for all the other folks in my life. Again, these folks are family members, friends, and even co-workers! It's enough to take me to places mentally and emotionally that aren't good places for me to be hanging out! I've prayed diligently for my God to give me a peace about this very thing, and I think He's giving me this new perspective now. I truly believe I'm finally changing in this area! This is big for me.....really BIG! "Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." ~Steve Maraboli If you're still with me, and you've read all the way to this point in the post, you may be thinking...."How corny!" or "Dot's clearly losing her marbles......one quote at a time." I don't blame you for having this opinion of me. I, too, think it at times, but I'm actually feeling pretty good today......right now....at this very moment. Change is happening, and I'm rolling with it! Take a look at this picture again: I almost trashed this picture. It was one I took just to get my lighting figured out on a cloudy day out by the pool. I mean, look at it. It's the backside of the flower. You can't even see the "pretty bloom" that was super large that particular day. However, the more I looked at this shot, the more I liked it better than any I took from the front. I can't explain it other than to say I see beauty here, too, and I wanted to honor that beauty and thank God for giving me this lesson in perspective. I'm looking at things differently these days, and I gotta tell you......I'm LOVING what I see! "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!" ~Dr. Wayne Dyer It's all about perspective! How are you perceiving your life today? I hope you see beauty, peace, and joy!
Until next time, ~Dot
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AuthorHi! I'm Dot. I refuse to succumb to the "empty nest syndrome"! So, this is my journal.....my photo album.....my attempt to enjoy the next chapter of my life as it unfolds. Welcome to The Roomy Nest! Archives
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